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IM over email. No extra server if you already have IMAP. Odd and useful.
https://delta.chat
Matrix client. Use it against your own Synapse, not only matrix.org.
https://element.io
Modern IRCv3 server. Self-host a network without Unreal-era config archaeology.
https://ergo.chat
No user IDs. Self-host relays if you want. E2E messenger that does not look like a phone book.
https://simplex.chat
Docker / compose pack for a private XMPP house. Invite-only, apps included.
https://github.com/snikket-im/snikket-selfhosted
IRC bouncer you run yourself. Not XMPP. Still the right tool if the channel is on Libera.
https://soju.im
Matrix homeserver. Heavier than Prosody. Federated rooms if XMPP is not the room you are in.
https://element-hq.github.io/synapse/latest
P2P messenger. No accounts, DHT, the old alternative to “just host a daemon.”
https://tox.chat